There once was a conference being held on top of a mountain about life lessons. Everyone went to the conference. I took up a huge boulder and carries it with me. All my pairs ask, why are you bothering to struggle with that hugh boulder over the hill? Besides suggest that i must be crazy, and stupid. When we all gotten on top of the mountain, we ended up a the back of a immense crowd. I put down my Hugh boulder, and sat on top of it to see, and hear the speaker more clearly. My pairs who was at a great disadvantage, now wishes to be seated on my boulder because of their incompetence to prepare for the unexpected. You see, the thing is! when your pairs started saying you are stupid, and crazy, it is only because they are incompetent, ill-equiped, and are ill-prepared. That which make them unable to see your vision.